Polyamorous eccentric seeks similar
cynan_poly
Oakland, California | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English, Other
I Would Describe Myself As
The first, most important thing to know is that I am actively polyamorous, with no intention of nor interest in changing that, ever. I am an eclectic, eccentric, independant thinker. I accept no dogma; I neither give blind obediance to anything, nor do I refuse to believe in anything. I do not assume that the new is better than the old, nor the reverse. I believe every person, idea, or event should be judged on merit, not on whether it has "always (or never) been done that way", or is endorsed by some alleged "expert" or "authority". I love life, and people; I believe that fun is sacred.
Sign
Virgo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Stocky
My Height Is
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian, Other
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Other
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat, Bird
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Retired
My Job Title Is
Challenger of social norms
I Make This Much In A Year
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing, Dark, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Dining, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Camping, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Any date where, once you get comfortable enough to really talk (and you do), you both feel like you've known each other forever; wherever fun is had, and attraction is mutual.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
On Holidays
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
- To change the Western world's assumption that all legitimate relationships have to be monogamous.
- To love as many worthy people as I can, as deeply & for as long as I can.
- To make conservatives realize that compassion, a sound environment, & tolerance are in their own best interests, & liberals realize there's nothing wrong with honestly-earned wealth or self-defense, and all of them understand that freedom is only real if we grant it even to people & ideas we don't like.
- To make the world a more ****positive & a more just, less overpopulated place.
- To put an end to all forms of intolerant fundamentalism.
But mostly, to help my friends live happier lives, and do so myself at the same time.
- To love as many worthy people as I can, as deeply & for as long as I can.
- To make conservatives realize that compassion, a sound environment, & tolerance are in their own best interests, & liberals realize there's nothing wrong with honestly-earned wealth or self-defense, and all of them understand that freedom is only real if we grant it even to people & ideas we don't like.
- To make the world a more ****positive & a more just, less overpopulated place.
- To put an end to all forms of intolerant fundamentalism.
But mostly, to help my friends live happier lives, and do so myself at the same time.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Animation, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Soul, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Fantasy, History, Mystery, Political, Satire, Science, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
- discussing polyamory (ethical NON-monogamy)
- reading
- movies
- - singing
- cooking
- subverting people's assumptions about society, **** politics, religion, & relationships
- spending time with friends
- ****(hey, let's be honest, here!)
- well-done TV
- listening to/singing along with recorded music (a separate issue from singing by myself)
- travel (when I can afford it)
- computer games
- museums (non-abstract art, archeology, natural history)
- socio-politically critical stand up comedy (like George Carlin, Chris Rock, Bill Maher, etc)
- learning about new inventions/gadgets/discoveries
- chocolate
- reading
- movies
- - singing
- cooking
- subverting people's assumptions about society, **** politics, religion, & relationships
- spending time with friends
- ****(hey, let's be honest, here!)
- well-done TV
- listening to/singing along with recorded music (a separate issue from singing by myself)
- travel (when I can afford it)
- computer games
- museums (non-abstract art, archeology, natural history)
- socio-politically critical stand up comedy (like George Carlin, Chris Rock, Bill Maher, etc)
- learning about new inventions/gadgets/discoveries
- chocolate
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
Relationships from "friends with benefits" to "long-term lover" to "co-spouse in an open multipartner marriage."
A mind that is *truly* open, without being irrational or gullible. A kind, patient heart. A big sense of fun, in bed & everywhere else. Polyamory (ethical nonmonogamy). Something resembling a reasonable degree of emotional health. Highly ****positive attitudes. Mutual attraction in both mind & body. Healthy passion. Someone(s) who can not only accept me as I am, but *appreciate* me as I am.
A mind that is *truly* open, without being irrational or gullible. A kind, patient heart. A big sense of fun, in bed & everywhere else. Polyamory (ethical nonmonogamy). Something resembling a reasonable degree of emotional health. Highly ****positive attitudes. Mutual attraction in both mind & body. Healthy passion. Someone(s) who can not only accept me as I am, but *appreciate* me as I am.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Date, Intimate, Committed