Do we really know what we really want?
funhappyhero
Falls Church, Virginia | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
What you see is what you get here! I'm not out to impress anyone. I know who I am, and I am what I am. I'm not here to impress anyone or trying to get anyones attention. If I meet nobody then so be it.
Do we really know what we want? I have been on this site and read so many profiles looking for a man that know’s what he wants, or the proverbial set of requirements. Comon people are we really that shallow? Well I got news for you. Life is an ever changing journey. Often times we have the image of the perfect mate only to discover our image wasn’t what we really wanted. The last time I had a profile here, I had the distinct honor of being interviewed many times. One time I even had to tell the girl she sounded like she was interviewing me for a job!
Look, all I can say is that what matters in life is knowing how to adjust your priorities. My career has enabled me to see the up side up the down side of down and everything in between. I have a great appreciation for the gifts God has given me in my life. Even the downs of life are great gifts God has given us to learn (Trust me I've had my share, but I'm thankful for every one). Sometimes we get so caught up in our lives we forget to slow down. How many times do we neglect the ones we love in the name of stress. Don't get me wrong. I love my job and wouldn't trade it for the world, but I do realize that there is more to life than carreer. Personal enrichment is the most important aspect of life. I have found through personal enrichment carreer goals are attained easier and even more rewarding.
So what am I looking for? Let me put it this way. Expectations lead to disapointment, disapointment leads to anger, anger leads to pain and I hate pain. I’m a kid at heart that knows when to be an adult. I am an educated professional who wears suits everyday to work but seriously, don’t we all want to enjoy life? I’m looking for a person to have fun with. Someone I can talk to. Yes, I am educated and can keep up a conversation in any environment. Who knows maybe it may just turn out friends but maybe it can turn out to be best friends or maybe more. I truly believe that it’s a matter of meeting a person and the direction goes from there. I just moved here so I’m just looking to meet new people and go from there. I let the love thing work itself out. I’ve always said when you look for love to hard you usually don’t find it until you least expect it and with who you least expect. Cupid works in mysterious ways.
I hope that answers your questions and feel free to ask, and please no more job interviews! I already have a job, let's just get to know each other and see where it goes from there. Remember having a partner means work, but when it becomes a job instead of partnership then it's not worth it.
PS: I don't have the Go-tee anymore. The facial hair is something I had to do every once in a while. I can explain later...
Do we really know what we want? I have been on this site and read so many profiles looking for a man that know’s what he wants, or the proverbial set of requirements. Comon people are we really that shallow? Well I got news for you. Life is an ever changing journey. Often times we have the image of the perfect mate only to discover our image wasn’t what we really wanted. The last time I had a profile here, I had the distinct honor of being interviewed many times. One time I even had to tell the girl she sounded like she was interviewing me for a job!
Look, all I can say is that what matters in life is knowing how to adjust your priorities. My career has enabled me to see the up side up the down side of down and everything in between. I have a great appreciation for the gifts God has given me in my life. Even the downs of life are great gifts God has given us to learn (Trust me I've had my share, but I'm thankful for every one). Sometimes we get so caught up in our lives we forget to slow down. How many times do we neglect the ones we love in the name of stress. Don't get me wrong. I love my job and wouldn't trade it for the world, but I do realize that there is more to life than carreer. Personal enrichment is the most important aspect of life. I have found through personal enrichment carreer goals are attained easier and even more rewarding.
So what am I looking for? Let me put it this way. Expectations lead to disapointment, disapointment leads to anger, anger leads to pain and I hate pain. I’m a kid at heart that knows when to be an adult. I am an educated professional who wears suits everyday to work but seriously, don’t we all want to enjoy life? I’m looking for a person to have fun with. Someone I can talk to. Yes, I am educated and can keep up a conversation in any environment. Who knows maybe it may just turn out friends but maybe it can turn out to be best friends or maybe more. I truly believe that it’s a matter of meeting a person and the direction goes from there. I just moved here so I’m just looking to meet new people and go from there. I let the love thing work itself out. I’ve always said when you look for love to hard you usually don’t find it until you least expect it and with who you least expect. Cupid works in mysterious ways.
I hope that answers your questions and feel free to ask, and please no more job interviews! I already have a job, let's just get to know each other and see where it goes from there. Remember having a partner means work, but when it becomes a job instead of partnership then it's not worth it.
PS: I don't have the Go-tee anymore. The facial hair is something I had to do every once in a while. I can explain later...
Sign
Scorpio
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Athletic
My Height Is
6' 2 (1.88 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Hispanic/latino
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
Body Art
Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is
Black
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Municipal / Law Enforcement
I Make This Much In A Year
$100,000USD To $150,000USD
I Live
Alone
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Loud, Comedic, Flirtatious
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Exercising, Games, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Museum
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Other
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Slapstick
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Family
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Vacuum Cleaner Noises, Jazz, New age, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read
Comic, Computers, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Technical
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed