A little idealistic
jazz4se
Wichita, Kansas | Femme Cherchant Homme
Informations de base
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
I believe we humans have what it takes to expand our communication skills, making it possible to learn to manage our Emotional Triggers in ways that empower our relationships instead of damaging them. With expanded skills we can create more reciprocal, win-win relationships. And it's time we did! We're the top species of the planet, and we possess brilliant minds.
With our remarkable capacities, to act as beasts of the field is truly unworthy of us. But act as beasts we do. When it comes to our relationships, we still act like some of the animals with whom we have competed for survival. In fact, the relationships we build, world-wide, mimic those in place in a chicken yard: a pecking order with a few wealthy at the top, and many at the bottom living in inconceivable poverty.
The way we manage our Emotional Triggers is so ancient, and deeply embedded in our consciousness, that it's extremely difficult to awaken to two facts: 1) the exploitative way is causing us to destroy our environment [ourselves too], and 2) we can do something about it at last. This awareness does not come easily because we've been conditioned to this "fowl" force-ranking mindset over millions of years, and simply cannot imagine living a different way.
Chickens live in an “exploitative pecking order” relationship system, and so do we! But, is this our true destiny as the top species of earth?
I say it isn't! Sooooooo .... let's grow a little (grin), and have a great time doing it! Let's change that ancient relationship system by learning the communication skills of which we are now capable. We need two sets of skills, 1) those that help us cope with life as it is, and 2) those that transform our lives. We humans excell in coping with the chicken yard, but don't know how to transform it. Let's learn the second set of skills.
Would love to chat with you. If you're somewhat idealistic too, you will love getting acquainted with me.
With our remarkable capacities, to act as beasts of the field is truly unworthy of us. But act as beasts we do. When it comes to our relationships, we still act like some of the animals with whom we have competed for survival. In fact, the relationships we build, world-wide, mimic those in place in a chicken yard: a pecking order with a few wealthy at the top, and many at the bottom living in inconceivable poverty.
The way we manage our Emotional Triggers is so ancient, and deeply embedded in our consciousness, that it's extremely difficult to awaken to two facts: 1) the exploitative way is causing us to destroy our environment [ourselves too], and 2) we can do something about it at last. This awareness does not come easily because we've been conditioned to this "fowl" force-ranking mindset over millions of years, and simply cannot imagine living a different way.
Chickens live in an “exploitative pecking order” relationship system, and so do we! But, is this our true destiny as the top species of earth?
I say it isn't! Sooooooo .... let's grow a little (grin), and have a great time doing it! Let's change that ancient relationship system by learning the communication skills of which we are now capable. We need two sets of skills, 1) those that help us cope with life as it is, and 2) those that transform our lives. We humans excell in coping with the chicken yard, but don't know how to transform it. Let's learn the second set of skills.
Would love to chat with you. If you're somewhat idealistic too, you will love getting acquainted with me.
Signe
Lion
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Mince
Ma taille est
5' 6 (1.68 m)
Mes yeux sont
Bleus
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Divorcé/e
J'ai des enfants
Oui - pas chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Non
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Yeux
Art Corporel
Autre
Mes cheveux sont
Bruns foncés
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Pas d'animaux
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Diplôme d'études supérieures
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Auto-entrepreneur
Mon domaine de compétence est
Autre
J'ai gagné cette année
De 15,000 € à 29,999 €
Je vis
Seul/e
Chez moi
Il y a souvent des copains à la maison
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - socialement
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Normal/e
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Réservé, Observateur, Sympa
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Faire de l'exercice, Lecture, Apprendre, Musique, Télévision, Films, Danse, Famille, Dîner , Photographie, Religion/Spiritualité, Théâtre, Cuisine, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Faire la fête, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Lire, Se déguiser, Télévision, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Dine, movie, dance ... walk ...
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
playing classical guitar
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, La personne qu'ils aimeraient être, Cool, Un amour
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Autre
Je vais à la messe
Une fois par mois
Mon but dans la vie c'est
Finish the book I am writing about what I believe to be the next step in the evolution of human consciousness. [gulp!]
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Vicelard, Sympa, Coquin/e
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Documentaires, Drames, Films
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Comédies, Drames, Documentaires, Thrillers
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Country, Rock, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Latino, New age, Musique ambientale, Soul, Reggae, Gospel
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Autobiographies, Biographies, Littérature classique, Santé, Histoire, Mystères, Philosophie, Religions
Mon idée du fun
Dancing, dining, movies [domestic, foreign, indies], antiques,
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Intelligence, Beauté, Humour, Talents, Empathie, Sensibilité, Etrangeté, Spontanéité, Argent, Séduction, Bon sens, Délicatesse
Que recherchez-vous?
More than a few sparks of chemistry. Someone who is interested in learning to manage his emotional triggers in ways that empower and heal relationships instead of damaging them. A fellow who wants to become great at expanded reciprocity.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Pote virtuel, Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement