want to share a cup of coffee?
julez
Fort Worth, Texas | Woman Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English, Other
I Would Describe Myself As
The Invitation
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your hearts longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your life from it's presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the sliver of the moon, "Yes!"
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.
It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
~ Oriah Mountain Dreamer
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your hearts longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your life from it's presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the sliver of the moon, "Yes!"
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.
It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
~ Oriah Mountain Dreamer
Sign
Cancer
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Big And Beautiful
My Height Is
5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Yes
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat, Dog
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Teacher / Education
My Job Title Is
Teacher
I Live
With Roomate(s), With Kid(s), With Pet(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Often
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Loud, Observant, Friendly, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Music, Tv, Dancing, Family, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards, Volunteering, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
a coffee shop..lots of laughter and talking
I've Always Wanted To Try
well...ask and I will tell
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Once A Year
My Political Views Are
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
to go to africa
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Dramas, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, History, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Science, Sports
My Idea Of Fun Is
coffee and a good convo! hummm anything goes I guess...be gentle! lol jk
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
Honesty, humor, you need to be able to laugh!!! and come on like yourself!!! I have great selfesteem and refuse to date anyone with bad self esteem!!! LOL..if you dont like yourself than what do you have to offer me? however, I am not looking for someone stuck on themselves...just someone happy in their own skin so to speak!
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date