interesting or intimidating?
salears
Fort Trumbull, Connecticut | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
i was talking to someone the other day and after we had talked for a bit, she asked if others found me interesting or intimidating. i had never really thought about it before, but the question makes sense. i tend to use words not in the common parlance, mainly due to having read insatiably during my formative years. and i suppose my personality can be described as forceful- while i reject the idea that i am unquestionably "right", i do tend to see things in terms of logic and the following of process. its the process and natural progression that i believe in, not a blind belief that everything i think is correct, but i guess i don't always come across that way, hence the intimidation. i'm actually a hell of lot more sensitive than most people give me credit for, but becuase they see the veneer of confidence and control, few realize it. i, in fact, view myself as normally being "right" in terms of the day-to-day decisions (work-related and otherwise), but terribly flawed in my ability to make the correct life choices- the big picture decisions, the ones that shape a persons life track. i suppose the silver lining resides in the belief that nothing is set until set in the ground.
i still read quite a bit and i still stick to mainly classics. while a will read modern authors on occasion, i find the flow of the writing to be very simplistic- the dickensonian art of crafting a single sentence that flows for an entire paragraph appears to me to be lost. I tend to hang out at the beach- the constant ebb and flow of the surf is soothing- especially at night under a bright moon. i used to go to bars regularly, but anti-smoking laws have relegated me to the status of second-class citizen (a position i do not relish) and as a result, i rarely bother now. i now tend to prefer a night hanging out at a friend's playing cards (cribbage mostly)- the added perk is having a couch to crash on if the night gets too foggy (never been to a bar that let me do that:).
i still read quite a bit and i still stick to mainly classics. while a will read modern authors on occasion, i find the flow of the writing to be very simplistic- the dickensonian art of crafting a single sentence that flows for an entire paragraph appears to me to be lost. I tend to hang out at the beach- the constant ebb and flow of the surf is soothing- especially at night under a bright moon. i used to go to bars regularly, but anti-smoking laws have relegated me to the status of second-class citizen (a position i do not relish) and as a result, i rarely bother now. i now tend to prefer a night hanging out at a friend's playing cards (cribbage mostly)- the added perk is having a couch to crash on if the night gets too foggy (never been to a bar that let me do that:).
Sign
Taurus
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Fit
My Height Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Other
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
maintenance tech
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - But Non Tobacco
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Sports, Reading, Music, Family, Camping, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Reading A Book
An Ideal First Date Would Be
i like to get to know a woman before i go out on a date- as such, a date is tailored to suit the tastes and interests of the woman i'm going out with.
I've Always Wanted To Try
i'd say i've pretty much tried everything i've wanted to.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool
Views
My Religion Is
Agnostic
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Libertarian
My Goal In Life Is
i find the setting of goals to be tiresome. i much prefer to take things as they come.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Documentaries, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Blues, Soul, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read
Classic
My Idea Of Fun Is
anything can be fun if you choose to make it so.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date