Heart of Gold
tenderlovingpeter
Lindenhurst, New York | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
"Been there, did that" are words that come to mind frequently and often. I've been around the block a few times and experienced alot, yet I am not a "negative" person. I am described by friends as a good person with a heart of gold. I enjoy the company of others and can get along well even under the most trying of circumstances. I am a smoker. I am a great listener. I am a warm, giving, affectionate and tender lover. Whips, Chains, ******* or Pain are NOT FOR ME. I think that some of the cruelest words in the world are “Don’t touch me!” I've been tested for HIV and am negative with the papers to prove it. I am told I look like Harrison Ford, everyone is entitled to his or her opinion!
I have been accused of "not caring" because I frequently will say, "I don't care" with regards to where to go or what to do. I do this out of flexibility and the preference of not arguing about trivial matters and not the inability to make a decision. Please don’t ask me what I want for dinner at eight o'clock in the morning. Just pull something out of the freezer and I'm sure that will be fine. I'm that easy! Do not mistake kindness for weakness however. I can be the most stubborn mule especially if the subject is about something that is not right. Sure, maybe nobody will know but I will and I like living with myself.
I am not just out to have a good time. I am fully aware that a good relationship requires work, time and attention to details. I do my best and do not give up easily. I am a one-woman man and do not for the life of me see how a person can carry on more than one relationship at a time. I am a lousy liar and would rather tell the truth and face the consequences than not. I play a little guitar – some of this, some of that. I do a little cooking and can sew on a button in a pinch. I am active in our community and hold various positions of responsibility in an organization targeted at those with problems dealing with themselves and their place in society. I am not a whiner and can take care of myself. I am not looking for a new mother to cook and clean for me. I love to travel and do not get car, air, sea, or train sick. I like to laugh and enjoy comedy. I like a good scare too.
I have been accused of "not caring" because I frequently will say, "I don't care" with regards to where to go or what to do. I do this out of flexibility and the preference of not arguing about trivial matters and not the inability to make a decision. Please don’t ask me what I want for dinner at eight o'clock in the morning. Just pull something out of the freezer and I'm sure that will be fine. I'm that easy! Do not mistake kindness for weakness however. I can be the most stubborn mule especially if the subject is about something that is not right. Sure, maybe nobody will know but I will and I like living with myself.
I am not just out to have a good time. I am fully aware that a good relationship requires work, time and attention to details. I do my best and do not give up easily. I am a one-woman man and do not for the life of me see how a person can carry on more than one relationship at a time. I am a lousy liar and would rather tell the truth and face the consequences than not. I play a little guitar – some of this, some of that. I do a little cooking and can sew on a button in a pinch. I am active in our community and hold various positions of responsibility in an organization targeted at those with problems dealing with themselves and their place in society. I am not a whiner and can take care of myself. I am not looking for a new mother to cook and clean for me. I love to travel and do not get car, air, sea, or train sick. I like to laugh and enjoy comedy. I like a good scare too.
Sign
Aquarius
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Slim
My Height Is
5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Sales / Marketing
My Job Title Is
Furniture Store Manager
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Often
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Class Clown
My Social Behavior Is
Observant, Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Camping, Playing Cards, Volunteering, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Let's meet for lunch, do a stroll down the beach afterwards and then catch a flick at the local theatre
I've Always Wanted To Try
There's a lot of things I'll try, but because I'm really a true blue nice guy - will keep it clean for this site !!
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
To retire in Belise
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Blues, Jazz
When I Read, I Always Read
Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Science, Science Fiction, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
This one caught me by surprise and will need time to think about it...but for now - I like live stand up comedy shows, a day at the beach and a night at home all by ourselves
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Intimate, Committed